STOP!

So there are things that people want to share with their loved ones. There are some others who like to ruin such nice moments by breaking the news prematurely - "Did you know this..." !

First off, when its not your info - stop talking abt it.
Secondly, Stay far away from it when the person did not even tell you or want to tell you for that matter.

Someone you know asked and the answer was simply "Yeah".

I call this too much time on your hands. Read my blog if its really the case - you may get something out of it!!!!! Stop being the Newsblock of the town.

I wanted to take my time to share my message my most loved ones. Special ***** for ruining it!

Fuming,
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A zillion people blogging abt him now and yes I am one....He was a legend....I remember growing up with his music. A few posters of his true self stayed in my room and each one of his performances was beyond words for me. I vividly remember during my first trip to Shanghai, China - I got myself an complete collection of MJ's work. I loved it and watched it very many times and forced mom to watch it too when she was here. I was indeed looking fwd to the comeback tour in London - This is it! but it all ended so abruptly.

Everything that happens is for a reason - He seemed pained in every which way. No comments on his personal life (I am no one in his personal life to talk abt it) but his music is something that I sure will miss...

Praying for his soul to rest in peace

Your music will live forever - Our Legend - MJ

Sobbing now,
P

Are you a single child?

I am - The one thing I miss in life as an adult is having a sibling. Cousins are there near in distance but mostly very far away in thoughts/actions but we are cousins not siblings right?

Oh well, being a child - it was most enjoyable/memorable to have all the attention and was great to not share my parents with anyone but as an adult things seems different. A sibling would have been nice to share the happiness/sadness/responsibility with.

In any case - if u r a single child - I am sure u will understand my thoughts - if not now atleast once you crossover from youth to adulthood.....

TC

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Thank you for everything for did for us. You were there when we really wanted you. The time and love your showered on my life is beyond words or deeds of thanks.

I want to do what you want and if that means you must leave - so be it. It is still unfortunate that someone who did not have much time to understand the systems and a piece of paper decided a childs care but so is the bitter nature of the situation. I sure will miss you lesser than her but it is the fact of life. My love & respect for you does not dimish one bit but I must say all I know is that I tried so hard and got so far -I really did - but in the end it doesnt even matter.

Guess we may never cross paths again but its a beautiful life and I am thankful for the precious moments spent together.

Lots of Love,
T's Mom

There is only one secret

Hard and sincertiy will never go waste. My dad taught me so and this is why I give it my 100%

TC

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Pregnancy - One of the best phases of a woman's life

No we are not expecting but someone I know is. Every time I hear a pregnancy announcement I tend to get hyperactive about how I can pamper the mom to be. This time it translated into a cake for her!

BTW - I Did not have an opportunity to do it to someone most special - oh well, maybe if there is a 3rd:)???

Awaiting the lil one's grand entry was indeed one of the most exciting phase/happiest moments in my life. With a pregnancy filled with uncertainty in my case - the downs seemed more than ups but yet everything was worth it - when she arrived. Every week of progress was a big deal and the thrill/the unconditional love grows from the day I can remember.
Moms to be care less about the advises about sleepless nights; bye bye freedom - you will do things on autopilot when the time comes and it is true that mostly everyone enjoys that moment:)
So relax and have fun - this is your moment - your pregnancy sure indeed is one of the best phases of your life - atleast mine was!!!

Facts about this moment in my life

I am at a point in life where I have learnt surprises are not welcome by one and all. You can drive miles and miles to see someone and they wont be upto meeting you coz they are just not into surprises and may even be taken aback for just showing up at their door step. They are acquaintances who need their space - I respect their honesty and most of all their space. It was immaturity on my part for not being able to differentiate my circle. Oh well, you learn from experience.

We go by invitations only and those that are not last min name sake invites.

Blessed are we to have a wonderful family upnorth and the drive to see them anytime of the year/day gives us immense pleasure. I must say their warm welcome; love and cheer is something anyone would crave for. Thank you for being there for me always - With them I show up - Not by invitation but because I want to see and with the unconditional love for each other - the pain of driving - it is all worth it.

Now for the moment of truth - Yes, we both work and we work very hard and take lot of pride in what we do. The house we live in; the cars we drive - yea, all affordable to us. This is because we are blessed and for the fact that we worked hard in school and me personally, I worked extra hard in my last days of school to be where I am. Ok. lets face it - Yes, I am part of the 6 digit earning community - so what now? I earn it for what I do. There are compromises in everything - I dont see my daughter all day long but I dont regret anything. I spend time with my daughter in every which way I can after my office hours. I do enjoy my life with her and my lovable/adorable husband.

I careless for people who just want to chat for the sake of killing time. Sorry folks, I really dont have time for you. Remember I prefer to have quality friends only.

Again, blessed are we to have a small group of friends - where we have a st. fwd relationship. We are working women with or without kids and relate to stress/games and dont need more of it. We barely meet at times but know we are there for each other. For the record, I dont disrespect stay home wifes or moms - I do think their taks is equally if not more challenging. My freinds circle just happened to be more of a working community.

So in a nutshell, I dont make friends to
1. Kill time that I dont have
2. To bring up our kids together with the conflicting underlying values we possess
3. OOOOh la la - here is me, I know everyone you know and I am special to them.

WTH, Do you think I am all paranoid abt it? The answer is baby, I dont have time for your stuff:)

The reason for this post today is to reset expectations and be clear about the fact that my family matters the most to me. Well, atleast lets say the family who are not into playing games.

TC

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For those of you who ask - here it is - my attempt to stay focused for the work week:)

Pls click on the picture to see the full image clearly.